Hello,
You may check your group policy, since you cannot find these options when you are using rdp , I suggest you can find if there's anything changed on :
Computer Configuration > Administrative Templates > Windows Components > Remote Desktop Services > Remote Desktop Session Host > Remote Session Environment.
You can try to set "Remove “Disconnect” option from Shut Down dialog" to disabled and restart your PC.
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