Hello Joel Silver,
Thank you for reaching out to Microsoft Support!
According to the documentation, createdDateTime supports only lt operators, as you stated.
After the query there is a parameter that uses search, I hope it is useful for you, please see the documentation for details:
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/graph/search-concept-chat-messages?tabs=http
Hope this helps.
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