Hi,
Yes you are correct about remote assistance and remote desktop connection. Your mother will not be able to see the screen in case of remote desktop connection. I seem to have strayed away from the issue. I apologize for my mistake.
You may check if the below provided steps assist you -
Step 1: Troubleshoot connection problems on your computer
a. Open Remote Assistance by clicking the Start button. In the search box, type Remote Assistance, and then, in the list of results, click Windows Remote Assistance.
b. Click Invite someone you trust to help you.
c. If you've never used Easy Connect, click Use Easy Connect.
d. If the connection attempt fails, click Troubleshoot, and then follow the instructions.
Step 2:
If the troubleshooter doesn't help with any problems on your computer, then there might be a problem on the computer you're trying to connect to. Ask the person that you're requesting help from to run the troubleshooter.
If you're still having problems connecting, try the Internet Connectivity Evaluation Tool on theMicrosoft website to check whether your router supports new connectivity technologies. For Remote Assistance to work, the computer must pass the Network Address Translator Type test.
Refer to the below links for assistance -
http://windows.microsoft.com/en-US/windows7/Windows-Remote-Assistance-frequently-asked-questions
Hope this helps.
Thanks,
Meghmala – Microsoft Support
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