Hello Ralph,
Running the windows update troubleshooter was one of the first things I did. It did come up with an error that it couldn't fix and I could not find a solution to that BUT
I have in the meantime found the solution to my problem thanks to a post on the ms community that I found:
my laptop was missing a registry entry: winevt
Once I put that in, all updated and all is fine!
Here are the links I used, in case anybody else needs them!
remedy proposed by Mr. Botva here: https://answers.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/forum/all/kb2962872-failed-to-install-error-code-8007054f/741b2b5a-a391-4fca-b0d3-6ae236fbb4f1
"this error appears, if analytics winevt is missing. to repair it simply import to registry this file.