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The waiter process1bed1e4108 holds an update-lock on this index key.
Typically, an UPDATE statement will first acquire U locks on rows that are may be in for an update, and if they are, the U locks are converted to X locks, and that is what is happening here. Notice the part requestType="convert". The U lock is compatible with the S lock, so blocking occurred at that point. But it is not possible to convert it to an X lock, because of the other process.