I was finally able to get this working.
I had to manually merge the values from an old copy of the project file in gitlab. For some reason it would not accept the changes from changing the settings in the IDE.
After merging the following line by hand it works now for both Debug and Release deployment.
<AndroidSupportedAbis>armeabi-v7a;x86;x86_64;arm64-v8a</AndroidSupportedAbis>
I cant figure out why the IDE was unable to write the changes to the project file, but no matter how many times I tried using the IDE to make the changes, I could not get the project to deploy a release build until I manually merged the line above.
Cheers!