update: day i did DDU + very old driver no crashes,
next day go back in , crashed again, checked driver, it updated to new driver automatically, today reverted driver like above no crashes. Driver is clearly the issue. Maybe GPU is somewhat the issue as well?
what is the best way for me to feel safe going to a new(er) driver? watch Nvidia forums or news maybe? either way i can periodically test and revert to this old driver if i really need to.
right now im running off the oldest one i could find. is there another reliable one that is more recent that i could test in the meantime? right now there are not really games forcing me to update or causing significant performance issues but if that day comes do you have a version you would recommend?