Hi, Sam. I'm Robinson, and I’m happy to help you today.
Unfortunately, there is nothing that you can do to change it. The decision on how the save/export window will be opened is made by the developer of the app and only the developers can change it.
When the developer is developing the app, they have two options.
-Option 1: Set to use the default Windows dialogs, this is the option that Photoshop uses. When the developer uses this option the dialog boxes will be opened using the same dialog boxes that Windows uses for everything.
-Option 2: Set to use the default dialogs from the IDE (integrated development environment) or the default dialogs from the language that the app is developed. When the developer uses this option a personalized dialog box will be opened instead of the default from Windows.
This is why there is a difference in how each app shows the dialog box. This is a design decision made by the developers.
I hope this information helps. If you have any questions, please let me know and I'll be glad to assist you further.