Hi Baldur. I'm Greg, here to help you with this.
- All ways to control Windows Updates in Windows 11 are here:
https://windows.do/taming-and-controlling-windo...
https://www.theverge.com/23027235/windows-11-pa...
- If you need to stop pending updates on an emergency basis here's how to remove downloaded updates before they install and the block Updates temporarily:
https://pureinfotech.com/disable-automatic-upda...
- If you want to report this to Microsoft you may be able to help improve this product/experience by using the Feedback Hub in Start Menu, especially if you are willing to share logs and other requested information.
While they will probably not see this here in the forums, Microsoft developers DO read feedback from customers that comes in via the Feedback Hub, so that is a great way to share your thoughts on how to better serve you as a customer.
Feel free to ask back any questions. Based on the results you post back, I will have other suggestions if necessary.
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