Are you performing the proper WSUS maintenance including but not limited to running the Server Cleanup Wizard (SCW), declining superseded updates, running the SQL Indexing script, etc.?
https://www.ajtek.ca/wsus/how-to-setup-manage-and-maintain-wsus-part-8-wsus-server-maintenance/
You'll also want to review:
https://www.ajtek.ca/wsus/wsus-system-requirements-what-should-i-plan-for/
1TB of updates is HUGE (normally, with WAM, the WsusContent store is <200GB and usually <100GB).
For your clients not reporting: you'll also want to review
https://www.ajtek.ca/wsus/client-machines-not-reporting-to-wsus-properly/
Pay attention to the troubleshooting part below the Client Side Script.
Lastly, it may not be worth saving. You can re-install WSUS fairly easily and start new in just a few hours.
https://www.ajtek.ca/wsus/how-to-remove-wsus-completely-and-reinstall-it/