The third party library NetOffice has a dedicated support site on Github where you should probably ask your question. Since this library isn't produced by MS and you cannot use the MS-sanctioned MIP library it doesn't seem like we will be much help here.
Just taking a guess, given that they are clear that they literally just wrap the Outlook COM interfaces, then there seems several places you could look.
- OISensitivity has a value for Confidential which may or may not line up with the MIP setting, you'll have to test it. That is exposed on the Sensitivity property of
MailItem
. - ItemProperties contains the mail item's properties. Since there is no "document" for Outlook this seems like the closest equivalent. It is documented as containing both standard and user-defined properties.