Hi John,
Based on my research, the issue is caused by SQL settings. You may need to change the SQL settings not the Excel client. You can try changing the CommandTimeoutproperty of your SqlCommand object. The Connect Timeoutattribute of a connection string determines how long a SqlConnection Object runs before it stops attempting to connect to a server. The CommandTimeout should set to 0.
Moreover, since the question is mainly related to SQL not the Excel client, we suggest you post a new thread in Microsoft SQL server forum for professional support. It’s the specific channel that handles SQL related questions.
Thanks for your understanding.
Rodney