Hi John,
Thanks for your updates.
I would like to explain that we can see those files in and outside our organizations which we have permissions with browser. We can sync files in our tenant (OneDrive for Business library or SharePoint Online team site library) with OneDrive sync client. However, we cannot sync files outside of our organizations as external user with OneDrive sync client.
We understand it will be more convenient if we can directly sync those files in a shared library from another tenant. We suggest you submit the feedback via Uservoice. This is the best way to let the related team hear your voice. Your suggestions will help us perfect our products and services.
Thanks for your understanding.
Qing