The Staging and active server each have their own SQL databases are are both up to date.
When one server is down and the other is set as the "active" server and removed from staging mode, all that means is that the active server is now exporting objects to Azure and to your on-prem forest.
Once the primary data center is back online, do not bring up the original AADConnect Server until you set the other DCs AADConnect to Staging Mode, then bring the primary DC AADConnect server and it can be allowed to export the results again as the "primary"
There are other advantages as well: When you upgrade, you can upgrade one at a time, switching between servers and testing as you upgrade.
It makes it very easy, so I dont see any advantage with having one server having to restore or extend a Vlan etc...