Hi Thomas, I'm an independent adviser and will try to help.
You are doing something wrong because that is not true. A combobox should have its Controlsource as a field in the form's Recordsource. I've done what you described many times. Let me give you n example.
Lets say you have a field in your Product table for a Category. Now lets say, your list of Categories uses a query like this:
SELECT DISTINCT Category FROM Products ORDER BY Category;
Now the ControlSource of this will be Category field in the table. There should be no reason you can't select a category from the Combobox.
BTW that would not be good design. You would have a lookup table for Categories instead.
To be able to help you I would need too know the Recordsource of your form, the Controlsource of the combobox and the Rowsource of the combobox.
If you need more help please supply that information.