A family of Microsoft relational database management systems designed for ease of use.
After you select Access oleDB - then before you browse to the file, click on advanced, and make sure it using ACE as opposed to JET.
It changes automatic, but that assumes that ACE is installed. If you don't see ace in this dropdown, then it likely not installed correctly. Also, try installing the x32 bit version of the ACE provider - not the x64 bit version.
So, I would grab the x32 bit version from here:
https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/download/details.aspx?id=13255
Albert D. Kallal (Access MVP 2003-2017)
Edmonton, Alberta Canada
edit:
The drop down I am talking about after you hit advanced button in your dialog is this one: