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Hey there! Nice to meet you!
Based on what you have mentioned: "email associated with my account, which is an email i do not recognize and is not mine so I cant use that one to get a verification code." Your Microsoft account was indeed compromised.
The hacker was able to remove your account's primary email/security info email and replace it with the hacker's email.
Your primary email created a new Microsoft account (without your purchased contents), which is why when you logged in to the old Minecraft Launcher, it showed that you do not have any realm or game license.
The only way to recover a hacked account is through the official Microsoft troubleshooter guide:
If the account recovery web form doesn't work, and since the email address has been replaced by the hacker, I'm afraid there is no other working method to recover the Microsoft account, and Microsoft Support cannot help either.
However, I would recommend reaching out to Minecraft Support regarding your Minecraft account if they can provide an alternative option:
https://help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/request/new?ticket_form_id=360001225811
Thank you for your kindness and understanding.
Best regards,
Darhyl