I haven't jumped on the Tahoe wagon so I cannot confirm but this sounds like a UI compatibility issue which needs to be addressed at the developer level. I know of nothing in the program which would account for such behavior. It's almost like it's erratically switching to something similar to [but not exactly] the Aluminum Office Theme
While the issue is displayed use Help> Feedback in the Excel menu bar to report the issue to the Microsoft development group. Check the box to include a screenshot. Apple should be notified as well.