Hello chandler,
Welcome to Microsoft Q&A forum.
I understand that you are having issue connecting your Xbox controller to Windows 11. Before we proceed, may I know the behavior of the Bluetooth when you try to connect the controller?
In the meantime, please try these steps:
- Type "Device manager" in the search bar and press Enter.
- Uninstall all Xbox/ Wireless Controller entries.
- Select "View" > Shows hidden devices.
- Remove all greyed out Xbox and Bluetooth devices as well.
- Try the pairing again.
I'm waiting for your reply.