com addins are only for legacy office applications. Also they are only supported for the desktop windows versions. Though I would not be surprised if even this support is dropped.
As the cloud became more important, a new plug-in architecture was developed for office. Now plug-ins are developed with html/css and JavaScript. The actual exchange server can serve as the installer (store) , and they work cross platform.
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/office/dev/add-ins/develop/develop-overview
The Office team supplies react components for all the office style controls, and matching css for office look. If you pick another framework besides react, they have a standalone sass/css package. The office team tends to use react for the official plug-ins so they are a good choice. You just need node installed to develop.
React fabric ui (sample code builds task pane)
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/office/dev/add-ins/design/using-office-ui-fabric-react
Fabric ui sass
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/office/dev/add-ins/design/fabric-core
Not sure why you would invest time learning an obsolete technology. The time it takes to learn to write a simple com component (office add-ins require discovery also be coded), you could probably code the complete plug-in modern style.