Additional SQL Server features and topics not covered by specific categories
What version of Windows is the CLIENT using?
The error you are getting, indicates the CLIENT is not setup to support TLS 1.2. This is not a problem with the SQL Server. The reason it works when you enable 1.0/1.1 is because is it connecting using 1.1.
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/win32/secauthn/protocols-in-tls-ssl--schannel-ssp-