I'm glad that you were able to resolve your issue and thank you for posting your solution so that others experiencing the same thing can easily reference this! Since the Microsoft Q&A community has a policy that "The question author cannot accept their own answer. They can only accept answers by others ", I'll repost your solution in case you'd like to "Accept " the answer.
Issue:
Running the -ValidateMapsConnection
command you received the error "Invalid command line argument"
Solution:
Your malware settings were preventing you from updating Defender. After suspending the malware protection app, you were able to resolve the issue.
If you have any other questions or are still running into more issues, please let me know.
Thank you again for your time and patience throughout this issue.
Please remember to "Accept Answer" if the reply accurately described the solution, so that others in the community facing similar issues can easily find the solution.