Hi @Laurel Tesar,
Thank you for posting your question to Microsoft Q&A Forum.
I'd love to clarify some key takeaways to know about creating a shared calendar in Outlook and why the behavior you’re seeing occurs,
When you create a calendar in Outlook, you are its owner. Even if you grant Can edit permissions, the calendar still belongs to your mailbox. This means:
- Any meeting invitations sent from that calendar use your account as the organizer.
- Responses and notifications are routed to you because Outlook assumes you’re responsible for that calendar.
Unfortunately, there’s no setting to make a shared calendar “anonymous” or remove the owner’s name entirely. This is by design in Exchange/Outlook.
You can try some workarounds to reduce or change this behavior
- Use Delegate Access Instead of just “Can edit,” assign Delegate permissions. Delegates can schedule and respond to meetings on your behalf, and you can control whether notifications go only to them or to both of you:
- Go to Calendar > Share Calendar > Sharing and permissions.
- Add the person and select Delegate.
- Under Send invitations and responses to, choose Delegate only so you don’t get copies.
You can use this article for guidance: Share and access a calendar with edit or delegate permissions in Outlook - Microsoft Support
- Shared Mailbox with Calendar If you want invites to come from a neutral address (not your name), ask your IT admin to create a shared mailbox with its own calendar. Everyone added to that mailbox can send invites as the shared address. This is the only way to avoid showing your name as organizer. For reference, please read: About shared mailboxes, shared folders, and shared calendars in Outlook - Microsoft Support
- Notification Settings In Outlook on the web or new Outlook, you can turn off email notifications for updates on shared calendars:
- View > View settings > Calendar > Shared calendars > Calendar updates.
- Uncheck the shared calendar to stop update emails.
For more information, please give this document a read: Receive notifications from a shared calendar in Outlook - Microsoft Support
However, you've proposed a great idea to enhance Outlook usability. We're continuously enhancing Outlook based on user feedback, and your input plays a valuable role in shaping future updates. If this feature is important to your workflow, I highly recommend submitting a suggestion directly from Outlook by navigating to: Outlook · Community. This is the most effective way to ensure your voice reaches the product team and can be considered for future improvements.

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