I'd suggest taking the 2019 offline, then do cleanup to remove remnants.
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows-server/identity/ad-ds/deploy/ad-ds-metadata-cleanup
https://techcommunity.microsoft.com/t5/itops-talk-blog/step-by-step-manually-removing-a-domain-controller-server/ba-p/280564
then rebuild it from scratch. Also check that each domain controller has own static ip address listed for DNS
Also check the dfs replication event logs on each for errors and clear up these problems.
I'd use dcdiag / repadmin tools to verify health correcting all errors found
before starting any
operations. Then stand up the new 2019, patch it fully, license it, join existing domain, add active directory domain services, promote it also making it a GC (recommended), transfer FSMO roles over (optional), transfer pdc emulator role (optional), use dcdiag / repadmin tools to again verify health, when all is good you can decommission / demote old one.
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