@Roger Zirn - I'm glad that you were able to resolve your issue and thank you for posting your solution so that others experiencing the same thing can easily reference this! Since the Microsoft Q&A community has a policy that "The question author cannot accept their own answer. They can only accept answers by others ", I'll repost your solution in case you'd like to accept the answer .
Ask: How to fix {"StatusCode":"DFExecutorUserError","Message":"Job failed due to reason: at Sink 'peopleSQL': ERRORCODE:MSSQL_101, STAGE:UPSERT-N-WAY, SQLERRORCODE:1750, MESSAGE:Could not create constraint or index.
Solution: The issue is resolved. At the end, the solution is very simple. As I didn't want the key column to get overwritten, I enabled the sink setting "Skip writing key columns". But if there are any new rows to be inserted, the key column must be written. This was my misconception.
That said, I disabled the setting and no more errors are showing up. What a surprise... ;-)
If I missed anything please let me know and I'd be happy to add it to my answer, or feel free to comment below with any additional information.
If you have any other questions, please let me know. Thank you again for your time and patience throughout this issue.
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